The 5 W's of BDSM - Why

Why?
Man, that's a hard one I must say, because the answer to that is as diverse as the people reading this.

Some people just need to let go. It's a way to release all of the toxins piling up inside you, and BDSM is a way of allowing someone else to take those things from you.
It's a way to quiet all of the things cluttering up your brain and to just...be.

Others it is simply who they are, especially if they are in a 24/7 type dynamic.

Temper can play a big part in BDSM. Or maybe temperament is a better term. Some people need to be able to blow off steam. So they might need to find a masochist who can take a huge amount of pain and they can take a flogger to their back, or a dragon-tail whip to their rear-end for an hour.
Others need to be shackled to the wall and have a violet-wand run along their naked skin for hours.

Sadness that you can't express in conventional ways can be released with BDSM, or happiness, or sexual needs you want fulfilled but you can't allow yourself to feel what you need to unless your tied to a bed, blind-folded and gagged.

Some couples just want to spice things up a bit in the bedroom. GO FOR IT!

Everyone's journey to BDSM is different, but each of us needs SOMETHING or we wouldn't be looking...

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Ink.
A three-lettered word that means different things to many people. Pictures and words that might stand as a reminder of love, loss, rebellion, or camaraderie. For Haleigh Grace, it meant freedom.
Walking through the doors of the tattoo parlor, Inkfluence, marked the start of taking her life back. Making it what she wanted it to be. No one was going to tell her she couldn’t. Not ever again.
Little did she know that behind those doors stood Kyle Muse. He was her best friend, who had walked away years ago without a backwards glance. The one man she fantasized would someday be her knight in shining armor. The one she saved herself for.
But, he has a knight of his own. Tall, dark, and dangerously sexy, Scott Preston. The owner of the very shop Haleigh has an appointment with at midnight.
Feelings long buried rise to the surface and the three find themselves bound by more than just ink…
A Romantica® ménage BDSM erotic romance from Ellora’s Cave

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