The 5 W's of BDSM - When

Part 2 - the When's of BDSM

The short answer - ANYTIME YOU WANT!

Participating and loving BDSM doesn't mean you're in a cage 23 hours a day or on your knees every hour on the hour. I guess it could mean those things depending on what kind of dynamic you're in, but it's not the norm based off of my experiences. People still have to work. They still have to take care of themselves / or their families. Life must go on!

It can be as simple as waiting for your top to open the car door for you and seating you because you are his/her property to care for.
Or being tucked in at night because that's the kind of care you need.
Or wearing a collar out to a theater performance.
Or a remote control bullet so your Dominant can drive you crazy when you're at the movie theater.
Maybe even simple "Good Morning" and "Good Night" texts to someone who's out of town so they know you're thinking about them as soon as you wake up and right before you go to sleep.

It doesn't have to be grand scenes taken place in a large dungeon for half your town to see. It can be whenever you and your partner(s) need it.
It is absolutely uniquely adaptable to your wants and time constraints.

This is one of the things I find so great about this lifestyle. It's completely different and can be perfect for anyone just starting out or someone who's been in for decades. And it's adaptable depending on altering physical and mental needs.

Yea for BDSM!

Members Only, Book Two
Ink.
A three-lettered word that means different things to many people. Pictures and words that might stand as a reminder of love, loss, rebellion, or camaraderie. For Haleigh Grace, it meant freedom.
Walking through the doors of the tattoo parlor, Inkfluence, marked the start of taking her life back. Making it what she wanted it to be. No one was going to tell her she couldn’t. Not ever again.
Little did she know that behind those doors stood Kyle Muse. He was her best friend, who had walked away years ago without a backwards glance. The one man she fantasized would someday be her knight in shining armor. The one she saved herself for.
But, he has a knight of his own. Tall, dark, and dangerously sexy, Scott Preston. The owner of the very shop Haleigh has an appointment with at midnight.
Feelings long buried rise to the surface and the three find themselves bound by more than just ink…
A Romantica® ménage BDSM erotic romance from Ellora’s Cave

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