The Reluctant Marquess released March 8th

LOVE IS BLIND ~ BRIDELOPE ~ The earliest word for a marriage custom by Maggi Andersen

BRIDELOPE dates back to A.D. 950 when it was called brydlopa. Part of this custom, called the ‘run for the bride-door,’ was an ancient tradition in which the bride was both symbolically and physically swept off on horseback to her husband’s home by him and sometimes a helper who was later known as the ‘best man’.

The Anglo-Saxon root word wedd (‘to gamble, wager’) first referred to livestock or other payment by the groom to the bride’s father, as a more civilized alternative to abduction.

In the 17th Century, before it became associated with romantic images, elopement was a legal term for the act of a woman who leaves her husband and ‘dwells with the adulterer, by which she shall lose her dower’. (Thomas Blount Glossographia 1656.)

 

As a symbol of resistance, the well-prepared Saxon bride’s wedding attire often included knives, which she ‘gracefully hung from her girdle’.

John Heywood listed other bridal equipment in his 1545 work The Four Ps:

Silke swathbonds, ribbands, and sleeve-laces,

Girdles, knives, purses and pin-cases,

Fortune dothe give these knives to you,

To cut the thred of love if’t be not true.

Bridesmaids were originally a maid’s closest friends who might attempt to defend her from an unwanted groom and make sure she didn’t panic and run off, especially in arranged marriages. In a custom known as ‘charming the path,’ the bride was hidden or disguised when the groom’s party came for her.

‘This was a common practice at old-fashioned weddings in Wales, among other places. The bride is generally expected to make a great show of resistance to her departure, and to lament loudly.’

(Burne, Charlotte S. The Handbook of Folklore. London 1883)

As late as the 18^th Century, a custom that often accompanied weddings in Wales was a race by the male members of the wedding party to the couple’s future residence, with food or a silk scarf (originally the bride’s garter, a potent love charm) typically awarded to the winner.

At Scottish country weddings, a related custom, to ‘ride the brose,’ with the first to arrive receiving a ‘cog of brose,’ or ‘good fat broth made for the occasion.’ (John Jamieson. An Etymological Dictionary of the Scottish Language 1808)

 ‘The boast of the winner was how far on with the brose he was before the rest of the company arrived.’

My Georgian romance The relucant Marquess is a marriage of convenience story, set during the Georgian era. It is released on 8^th March by Knox Robinson Publishing. You can order the paperback now from Amazon. http://www.amazon.com/Reluctant-Marquess-Maggi-Andersen/dp/1908483091/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1328069811&sr=8-1

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Source: Forgotten English Jeffrey Kacirk, Quill William Morrow NY.S